The Mom who went SNAP.. A cautionary tale..

There once was a mother
Who lived life quite well
If she had a bad day
No one could tell
She did all the things
that good mothers do
the housework, activities,
even work too.
Prepared all the meals
and prepped kids for bed
you'd never know
of the things in her head.
She strolled with a smile
No matter the day
Always so chipper
in every which way.
Now, she's not from Stepford
And she's not just some wife
She just tries to be happy
and live a nice life.
But being a person
she's bound to have flaws
which makes her normal
breaking no laws.
She had days in her head
where she wanted to scream
we've all been there
you know what I mean.
But she didn't at all
Not one little noise
not even when stepping
on strewn about toys.
Or while shopping, cleaning
or making the food
You just couldn't tell
when she hit a bad mood.
The moods,she suppressed
were like cheese in a trap
Ready to blow? Possibly...
SNAP!!!
Until one fine day
She met someone new
So intriguingly different
What else could she do.
She soon came to see
this new girl was THERE
She could talk about good things
bad things, She Cared!
She started to feel
her tension, it budged.
It was nice being HER
without feeling judged.
She could say what she wanted
and tell how she feels.
To this new mom in town
Who really seemed.. REAL.
They shared stories, some jokes
and even drank wine.
Both venting frustrations
and seemed to be fine.
At last! The mom said,
Her thoughts could be shared
With another real mom
who would always be there.
It is very important
For a mom to have space
and a person to vent to
no matter the case.
All of us moms have
had some form of trap
That lingers and looms
ready to snap...
I'm thankful for women
I have in my life
with whom I share happiness,
grief, love and strife.
The mom in this story,
She could be quite real.
Wearing a mask
that hides what she feels.
Be thankful for ones
who see past it all
who break up the normal
to help catch what falls.
Never be scared to share
worries and crap
It will help you avoid the
Super Mom SNAP!
MOM upside down spells
something quite true.
It spells out WOW
because of all that we do.
So take off the cape and
pour you a glass
sit down with a friend
and laugh off your ass.
You just never know
How happy you'd be
Until you find that ONE mom
Like how this mom found me.


Yes.

-SuperMom 😍

Happy Anniversary to us! Rated.. hmm....

I can't even produce an excuse good enough to explain my absence. Kids, school, work.. I've been a little checked out, exploring new things. ANYWAY. I'M HERE RIGHT NOW!

Today, September 11 2017, marks my 13th anniversary. Life together these last 13 years have been like a Disney movie... A Disney movie, hugged by a suspenseful drama with a dash of horror and loads of comedy elements throughout. (Nobody has died, don't be so negative..) Basically what I'm trying to say... Anyone who describes their marriage as a Disney movie where life is all kittens and rainbows with singing animals and quirky characters and over the top happy ending possibilities with a heartwarming song.. is full of shit. A marriage, a REAL marriage, takes a lot more than whistling while you work. It takes compromise, sacrifice, hard work, commitment. It takes a hell of a lot if you want the possibility for that happily ever after. Real love is both easy AND hard. The coming together of two people is not something everyone is made for. You're seriously altering your existence to fit with your other half. It can be frustrating and nerve wrecking.. However, if you find your person.. All of that can be washed away. It will still pop up BUT, a million little amazing things will wipe it right off the board... I feel, especially these days, that 13 years is a long time. So many people these days it seems, fall in love, get married and two years later... They're no longer together. Of course there can be a lot of elements... You realize you don't operate well in the same space... There are compromises not wanting to be made.. The love was actually lust.. and the list goes on. So again, to me, 13 is a long time. And though we haven't always been each others Princess and Prince Charming, he is and always will be the piece that completes my twisted ass puzzle. I have to give big props to my husband every day, not just anniversaries, because I can be a HANDFUL. An emotional, crazy, headstrong Aries (Look that up, you'll get it if you don't already know..) On our amazing roller coaster of life we've had several dips, turns and corkscrew segments. I like to think that we come out of those stronger and more appreciative than before. I'm happy to say that for the last little bit, the coaster is running smooth.. Fast paced with a jolt thrown in here and there but still the best ride I could've ever been on. And no matter what lies ahead, we'll be bulldozing it hand in hand as one horrific beast as opposed to two scared people. Husband of mine, I know I don't have a singing bird, a fairy or even deer who help me sweep... But I hope I have made you as happy as you have made me all this time. Happy Anniversary to us and may there be many, MANY more. More stories, more laughs, more moments, hugs, kisses, more times that I wake more thankful than the day before to have you in my life. I love you more than everything. Forever, always and longer.

Thanks for checking this out everyone and thank you for the well wishes and words of wisdom and support! <3

Until next time...
-SuperMom

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